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Romantic versus Rational Love in Sense and Sensibility and Emma

Paper by Keith Nelson

In Jane Austen’s novel Sense and Sensibility, the love triangle of Marianne Dashwood, John Willoughby, and Colonel Brandon mirrors one developed in her later novel, Emma; Emma Woodhouse finds herself caught between the romance of Frank Churchill and George Knightley. Throughout the two texts, both characters realize an exciting new romance in Willoughby and Churchill, experience their potential lovers’ faults, and ultimately choose the older, wiser man. Austen uses this commonality of romantic plot points along with the tools of free indirect discourse and a subversion of expectations to develop Emma Woodhouse and Marianne Dashwood as distinct characters, revealing that finding love is a maturing process, a pathway both the rational and the romantic must follow.

Despite their differing natures, both Emma and Marianne run into the same problem: a youthful, spirited lover who distracts from their real romance. Emma meets the exciting whirlwind that is Frank Churchill, described as being “quick and sensible,” and his “countenance [having] a great deal of the spirit and liveliness as his fathers” (Austen, Emma 146). John Willoughby, a man of “youth, beauty, and elegance” (Austen, Sense 44), saves Marianne after she sprains her ankle, and Marianne immediately praises him, despite seeing “less of his person than the rest” (Austen, Sense 44). Though involved with similar love interests, the third-person narrator adopts the thoughts of Emma and Marianne in two distinct tones: one of grounded rationality and one of dreamy romance. Emma’s description of Frank Churchill is level-headed, pointing out what she sees and feels, stating that “she felt immediately that she should like him,” describing his manner, conversation, and spirit as “well-bred,” arriving at the conclusion that “acquainted they soon must be” (Austen, Emma 146). Austen uses this initial meeting of Frank Churchill to portray Emma as less swayed by looks than by air, as she describes his character more than his initial appearance, though he is still stated to be a “very good looking young man” (Austen, Emma 146). Emma’s praise of Churchill is based on what is tangible, breaking down Frank to see what is really attractive about him. In this, Austen uses a tone of rational delight to portray this logical nature in Emma. On the other hand, Marianne’s description of John Willoughby overflows with irony, as the narrator states that she saw “less of his person than the rest,” despite being the one to describe him most. The text states that “His person and air were equal to what her fancy had drawn for the hero of a favorite story” (Austen, Sense 44). His actions fit into her imaginative view of a hero, seeing Willoughby run from afar just to save her. Marianne is looking for some sort of ideal man to come and, as Willoughby does, sweep her off her feet. Marianne even forms her ideal man to fit Willoughby, realizing that “of all manly dresses a shooting-jacket was the most becoming” (Austen, Sense 45). Willoughby represents everything that Marianne expects in a man: heroic, romantic, and dashing. Her reaction is almost ethereal, helping the reader understand the delusional perspective of romance which Marianne holds.Austen uses these imaginative thoughts of Marianne to characterize her as someone who lets emotions take hold of her, being instantly swept away by her busy imagination (Austen, Sense 45). The strength of her imagination is emphasized when the pleasure of her daydream causes the pain of her sprained ankle to be “disregarded” (Austen, Sense 45), showing that Marianne’s emotions are so overwhelming that even her own pain is completely ignored. Using free indirect discourse, in which Austen blends the thoughts and speech of the characters, the nature of Emma Woodhouse and Marianne Dashwood is shown in their reaction to similar romantic interests to be overly rational and logical in the former, but emotional and dreamy in the latter. Though their reactions are different on the surface, both women “judge” their men with their own biases and worldviews, rather than getting to know the men first- Emma with her pleased reaction to Frank’s “well-bred conversations” and quickness (Austen, Emma 146), and Marianne with dreamy heroic ideals and movie-like romanticism.

When Emma Woodhouse and Marianne Dashwood both discover the lies their respective love interests tell them, Austen uses the subversion of readers’ and characters’ expectations to show the growth of Emma and Marianne, both growing from their previous faults of an overly rational or overly romantic view of love. When Emma Woodhouse finds out about Frank Churchill’s engagement to Jane Fairfax, Emma is said to have “even jumped with surprise”, and was “horror struck” (Austen, Emma 304). Mrs. Weston expects this reaction to be from Emma’s attachment for Frank, and is nervous to share the news, “averting her eyes” when speaking to Emma (Austen, Emma 304), framing the conversation through the eyes of Mrs. Weston, giving the reader this same sense of fear. However, this expectation is contradicted by Emma’s suddenly steady countenance in the response to Mrs. Weston (Austen, Emma 304). Despite Mrs. Weston’s worry, Emma has realized that her attachment to Frank has ceased, for a reason that she herself does not know (Austen, Emma 305), calling it a thing of “wonder” (Austen, Emma 305). The word “wonder” here to describe the loss of attachment implies that trying figure out the reason would be out of reach; that a logical view of why she now feels differently towards Frank cannot be fully given or thought through, that it is just something that happened. Through this realization, Austen shows the growth in Emma’s view of love, letting her emotions speak for themselves to show a change from Emma’s previously logical view of love.

In the same way, Austen uses Marianne’s realization of Willoughby’s lies to grow her character beyond her romantic idealization, using Elinor’s hesitancy to tell Marianne to create suspense, with Marianne’s response ultimately subverting the expectation of an emotion outbreak. Elinor, having received the confession from Willoughby, walks with Marianne, and Elinor uses the opportunity to begin her “recital, as she hoped, with address” (Austen, Sense 324). The words “recital” and “address” show Elinor’s nervous state, and that the weight of telling Marianne of Willoughby’s confession is equal to that of a stage performance, building suspense. Austen uses this language to create a sense of delicacy in Elinor’s approach, as Elinor is expecting that the wrong word in her address could cause a negative reaction in Marianne. This nervous diction is contradicted by Marianne’s reaction, saying “not a word”, walking back home, then going “slowly upstairs” (Austen, Sense 324). Looking specifically at Marianne’s reaction to Willoughby’s letter from back in Chapter 29, she is said to “almost [scream] with agony” (Austen, Sense 173). Through her repeated outbreaks of overwhelming emotions, Marianne’s dread would be expected to break through once again. However, Marianne shows growth by contradicting the strong emotions shown in her past by calmly hearing the news, withholding questions, and retreating to “reasonable” solitude (Austen, Sense 324). When Marianne hears from Elinor that Willoughby did love her, but chose to marry for money, she chooses to react calmly and reasonably, despite the news being so devastating. Through this, Austen shows Marianne to be growing from not only her attachment to Willoughby but also her overwhelming emotions and sensibility, subverting the expectations placed by her own previous actions.

Both Emma Woodhouse and Marianne Dashwood end up with the older, more mature man in their respective stories, Emma with Mr. Knightly, and Marianne with Col. Brandon. In this, Austen uses free indirect discourse to reveal the inner thoughts and feelings of the characters to show how their views of love have changed. For example, when Mr. Knightly proposes to Emma, her inner thoughts state that “the dread of being awakened from the happiest dream, was perhaps the most prominent feeling” (Austen, Emma 330). Emma’s most overwhelming emotion at the time is not that of rationality, not immediately viewing the relationship through the eyes of others such as her father or Harriet, but a feeling of pure delight, as if she is living in the “happiest dream” and wishes not to be woken up. Through the whole proposal, Emma does not logically describe Mr. Knightley’s air or looks to convince herself why she should accept, as she described Frank Churchill, but takes Knightley at his word. Austen uses free indirect discourse to bring the reader into the thoughts of Emma to explicitly reveal this change in thought, as when Emma asks herself what she should say, her thoughts respond with, “Just what she ought, of course” (Austen, Emma 331). Emma no longer needs to convince herself of love, as seen with Frank Churchill, but her emotions and feelings do the speaking for her, saying “just what she ought” to say (Austen, Emma 331). In the end, Emma learns through Frank Churchill and George Knightley that love is not just an idea you convince yourself of, but an overwhelming feeling that lets you speak your heart and be vulnerable, and Austen uses free indirect discourse to do it.

For Marianne, this change in heart is explicitly stated by the narrator in the last chapter of the text, when she is said to “discover the falsehood of her own opinions… to counteract… her favorite maxims” (Austen, Sense 352). Austen reveals through the narrator’s knowledge that Marianne’s view of love has been turned upside down, contradicting her previous romantic sentiments and her dislike of Col. Brandon, thinking previously that he was “too old to be married” (Austen, Sense 352). Where Marianne would have expected an irresistible passion as she did before, she now enters a new stage of life, taking on solid responsibilities and actions out of love for Brandon (Austen, Sense 352). The two years that Marianne lives in the text have changed her personality to grow past Willoughby, now finding her happiness in the happiness of Col. Brandon, the narrator stating that her “whole heart became… devoted to her husband, as it had once been to Willoughby” (Austen, Sense 352). Austen, using free indirect discourse, ends the story of Marianne by directly stating her difference in countenance, her actions now rebuking her old thoughts of romance and her old love for Willoughby.

Overall, the similar romantic beats of Sense and Sensibility and Emma show the overarching idea that love is a growing process, which both characters show through their encounters with youthful, passionate loves and their ending marriage to the more mature man. Through free indirect discourse, Austen gives the reader direct insight into this growth, showing Emma’s distant and critical view of love morphing into her feelings for Mr. Knightley, along with Marianne’s fall to passion and high romantic expectations, eventually giving way to sense and truth in her marriage to Col. Brandon. In this description and change, Austen uses the previous nature and actions of the two characters to show this growth, subverting the expectations of the reader to draw attention to these changes. In the end, both Emma and Sense and Sensibility show that through the journey of love, character and nature are challenged uniquely, with Austen exposing narrow views of love to show drastic growth in her characters.

Works Cited

Austen, Jane. Sense and Sensibility. Edited with an introduction and notes by Ros Ballaster, Penguin Classics, 2014.

Austen, Jane. Emma. Edited by James Kinsley, Oxford World’s Classics, new ed., Oxford University Press, 2008.

July 15, 2026
Jane Austen’s Usage of Irony and Absurdity to Characterize

Paper by Keith Nelson

In Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, Austen portrays Mrs. Bennet as an absurdly ignorant character, unable to see clear inconsistencies in her thinking and embarrassingly overreaching in her daughters’ lives; this portrayal juxtaposes that of her quick and witty husband, Mr. Bennet. Examining the discussion of Mr. Collins’ marriage proposal between Mrs. Bennet, Mr. Bennet, and Elizabeth in Volume 1 Chapter 20 of Pride and Prejudice reveals how Austen develops this portrayal, using verbal irony, sarcasm, and mockery to provide the reader with a comedic sense of superiority over the blatantly ignorant character, Mrs. Bennet, using Mr. Bennet as a direct agent of this irony to lightening the weight of Mr. Collins’ proposal to Elizabeth.

First, Austen uses a twist of verbal irony to paint the picture of Mrs. Bennet’s unawareness of her own comedic statements. In Mrs. Bennet’s alarmed response to Mr. Collins’ concerns about Elizabeth being a “headstrong foolish girl” (Austen 84), she states that “Lizzy is only headstrong in such matters as these” (Austen 84). “These” matters she’s referring to are related to the heavy topic of marriage. In stating that Elizabeth is only headstrong in heavy matters, the word “only” functions as the ironic modifier, as if to be only headstrong in important matters is a small, overlookable thing in a wife, when it is a large incompatibility with Mr. Collins, who does not want someone who contemplates a serious decision but accepts what a man tells her to do (Austen 84 [SB1] ). The irony comes from the reader being put in a position of superior knowledge with the word “only,” knowing that Mrs. Bennet’s broad generalization that being headstrong in decisions is acceptable comes only from her desire to secure her daughter in what Mrs. Bennet sees as an advantageous marriage. Through this verbal interaction, Austen reveals just how shallow Mrs. Bennet is, as well as revealing Collins to be someone who considers a marriage proposal not something a girl needs to think about, expecting her to say yes because of his financial situation and connection to Lady Catherine. Austen uses this irony of Mrs. Bennet grasping at straws to keep Mr. Collins interested to continuously clue the reader in on the real purpose of Mrs. Bennet’s encouragement (to marry off Elizabeth) beyond just stating it and moving on, using the language of Mrs. Bennet to constantly portray her as one-track-minded. Through this, a tense moment of an unwanted marriage proposal from an unwanted man turns into a lighthearted poke at Mrs. Bennet’s hopeless efforts.

After Mrs. Bennet reassures Mr. Collins that his proposal will not fail, Austen uses another ironic line to portray the ignorance of Mrs. Bennet, through the character of her witty husband, Mr. Bennet. Mrs. Bennet tells Mr. Collins that she will go to Mr. Bennet to talk on the marriage, and that together they will “very soon settle it with [Elizabeth], [she] is sure” (Austen 84). Despite Mrs. Bennet’s confidence [SB2] in Mr. Bennet’s settling of the matter, the reader knows that Mrs. Bennet being so “sure” in Mr. Bennet settling the matter in her favor is completely incorrect [SB3] , through previous characterization. Throughout the novel, Austen has portrayed Mr. Bennet as the more intelligent and aware of the pair, describing him as “an odd mixture of quick parts, sarcastic humor… years had been insufficient to make his wife understand his character” (Austen 5). Through Mrs. Bennet’s confident words to Mr. Collins, Austen allows the reader to draw upon their previous knowledge of Mr. Bennet’s character, connecting through his past characterization that it is highly unlikely that Mr. Bennet will settle the matter in direct coordination with Mrs. Bennet’s opinion as revealed later in the passage. By Mrs. Bennet being “sure” that he will agree with her, the reader gains a sense of superiority over Mrs. Bennet’s quips, knowing that her statement of confidence is in vain. By using this irony of blind confidence, the text subtly suggests that the topic of marriage to Mr. Collins can be treated with humor and lightheartedness, contrasted by Mrs. Bennet’s overly serious and determined tone.

As Mrs. Bennet races to tell Mr. Bennet of the “uproar” the house is in, Austen uses Mr. Bennet’s subtly sarcastic response to his wife’s urgency to establish the calm, superior manner of Mr. Bennet. Mrs. Bennet rushes to the library to find Mr. Bennet, blurting out a lie to appeal to him, saying that “we are all in an uproar” (Austen 84). Nobody is in an uproar, not even Mr. Collins, and Austen juxtaposes this fake urgency with Mr. Bennet’s passive response, stating that “he raised his eyes from his book and fixed them on her face with unconcern which was not in the least altered by her communication” (Austen 84). His utter disregard for her sense of urgency and distress is a recurring theme throughout the novel, such as ignoring her numerous pleas to visit Mr. Bingley while simultaneously planning to meet him anyway (Austen 3). Mr. Bennet masks his disregard with flowery words to appease Mrs. Bennet, taking control of the situation calmly whilst retaining his superiority over the matter through a sarcastic, “I have not the pleasure of understanding you… of what are you talking [SB4] ?” (Austen 84). By stating that he didn’t have the “pleasure” of understanding [SB5] her, Mr. Bennet makes a joke purely for himself, knowing that it’s not “pleasure” to understand her ramblings, but the sarcasm flies right over Mrs. Bennet’s head, despite being married to him for years, since she still cannot understand his character or teasing (Austen 5). Mr. Bennet fully understood what his wife said, as the text states that he stared at his wife until she “finished her speech” (Austen 5). We know Mr. Bennet to be a man of quick wit and understanding, so by saying that he doesn’t understand what she said, he makes a mockery of the topic at hand, further giving the reader a feeling of comic superiority to the stresses of Mrs. Bennet and the proposal. This comic superiority lets Austen lessen the impact and importance of the previously heavy subject matter of the proposal, using Mr. Bennet’s look of “calm unconcern” in the face of a worrisome marriage to slow the situation down and create comic relief.

Austen uses the flat response of Mr. Bennet to the hopeless expression of Mrs. Bennet’s logic to once more mock the desperate state of Mrs. Bennet and continually poke fun at the intensity with which Mrs. Bennet repeatedly petitions for intervention in Elizabeth’s rejection. Mrs. Bennet explains that “Lizzy will not have Mr. Collins, and Mr. Collins begins to say that he will not have Lizzy” (Austen 85). Using absurd logic to explain the problem of the marriage proposal, Austen characterizes Mrs. Bennet as one who is willing to go against even the wishes of her children [SB6] to fulfill her own desires. Since both Lizzy and Mr. Collins do not want to marry, the matter has sorted itself out, but ironically, Mrs. Bennet is completely oblivious to this, only focused on her own demands that they marry, despite their obvious incompatibility. Through this ignorance, Austen paints a comic mockery of Mrs. Bennet’s own headstrong manner in Mr. Bennet’s response, asking her, “And what am I to do on the occasion? – It seems a hopeless business” (Austen 85). By stating that the business is “hopeless,” the reader and Mr. Bennet both understand that Mrs. Bennet’s requirement of marriage is impossible, giving a sense of authority over Mrs. Bennet. The irony comes in Mrs. Bennet’s futile pleading, as the reader knows that her demands will find Mr. Bennet and be met with unconcern. The dramatic irony, in which the audience has information (Mr. Bennet’s personality), but Mrs. Bennet does not, creates a humorous scene that dismantles the intensity of Mrs. Bennet’s requests.

After Mr. Bennet calls Elizabeth to his library, Austen uses the next few lines of dialogue to create suspense about Mr. Bennet’s decision. Mr. Bennet clarifies the situation at hand, referring to Mrs. Bennet’s insistence on Elizabeth’s acceptance, in which Mrs. Bennet states that if Elizabeth does not accept, “[she] will never see [Elizabeth] again” (Austen 85). Although it has been previously hinted that Mr. Bennet will side with Elizabeth, his hearing out of Mrs. Bennet creates tension in the text, because despite his reluctance, the proposal has yet to be settled, and Mr. Bennet could still make an unwanted decision to force Elizabeth to marry. However, it is revealed in his response that Mr. Bennet listens to his wife’s claim for pure amusement, mocking her wife’s hard will and empty threat (she talks to Elizabeth on the very same page) in seeming to comply and “insist upon [Elizabeth marrying [Collins]” (Austen 85). However, true to the character of Mr. Bennet, he opposes [SB7] his wife once more, stating that [SB8] , “Your mother will never see you again if you do not…and I will never see you again if you do” (Austen, 85). By using this parallel structure of two choices, Mr. Bennet makes the whole situation into a large joke, indirectly addressing the problem at hand while mocking his wife’s threat of never seeing Lizzy again by making a threat of his own to establish his opinion on the matter. By this mockery and sarcasm, Austen gives the reader another sense of comic superiority to Mrs. Bennet, establishing that her gripes and complaints are to be taken with a grain of salt, as Mr. Bennet clearly does.

Moving on from Mr. Bennet’s conclusion, Austen uses Mrs. Bennet’s continual misunderstanding to show her cluelessness and naivety, establishing a “punchline” of sorts at the end of Mrs. Bennet’s dialogue. Mrs. Bennet, shocked at her husband’s denial of her requests, blurts, “What do you mean… You promised me to insist upon her marrying him” (Austen 85). The irony in this sentence comes from our previous knowledge of the scene, that Mr. Bennet did not promise to “insist” on Elizabeth marrying, but only stated that “she shall hear my opinion” (Austen 85). Mrs. Bennet becomes frustrated at her own misunderstanding of Mr. Bennet, and we conclude the episode with the irony of her own ignorance of facts that have been made blatant to other characters and the audience. The “punchline,” in a sense, is that the whole time, Mrs. Bennet thinks she is getting her way, but in the end, is utterly unsuccessful.

Overall, Jane Austen uses irony, sarcasm, and mockery to establish a comedic sense of superiority in the audience and characterize the oblivious character of Mrs. Bennet, using the character of Mr. Bennet and his calm, witty demeanor to provide comic relief in the face of an uncomfortable situation. Through the clueless ramblings of Mrs. Bennet in the excerpt and their parallel to Mr. Bennet’s teasing and mockery, Austen provides characterization in the text through the usage of unique vocabulary in dialogue with the two, showing their personalities without the need for over-narration or direct statements. Austen uses this vocabulary to create a sense of comedy in a serious and awkward scene, giving readers relief through dramatic irony in which the audience knows more than a character, allowing them to experience the text in a more engaging way.

Works Cited:

Austen, Jane. Pride and Prejudice. Edited by James Kinsley, introduction and notes by Christina Lupton, Oxford University Press, 2019.

July 15, 2026
Reading “Pride and Prejudice” as a Man

By Keith Nelson

Freshman year of college, I had a 50$ Barnes and Noble gift card that sat in my room unused. One day, seeing it lie feebly on my table amongst the pile of paper and assignments, I remembered how much I used to love reading when I was a child, and figured I should give it another go. One typically needs a book in order to start reading, so I loaded up with some friends and headed down the Atlanta Highway towards the golden mecca of intelligence.

I strolled around the store looking for familiar titles and spotted a copy of Pride and Prejudice on a high shelf. I had seen the movie (Keira Knightley 2005 version) and thought highly of it. The book and movie are widely renowned, though it’s said to be more of a ‘girl’ book. I picked it up, became bogged down in the language, and set it back down. I didn’t touch it again till this winter, a year later.

Plot

In the beginning, we are introduced to the Bennett family, with an assortment of ‘Mr.’, ‘Mrs.’ and ‘Miss’ that took some getting used to. Mr. Bennett, the father of 5 daughters, is an intelligent and witty man who enjoys reading alone in his library to escape his nagging wife, Mrs. Bennett. Mrs. Bennett has heard news of a single man of substantial wealth by the name of Mr. Bingley moving into their town. She is constantly involved in everyone’s business and presses her husband about the matter, so that he may invite the young man over to display their daughters and get one married. Marriage is the main driver of nearly all of Mrs. Bennet’s actions, and she is constantly obsessed with her daughters’ relationships.

There is a ball in town, and the Bennetts all attend to see the new man who has arrived. Bingley is a jolly fellow and takes an immediate liking to the eldest daughter, Jane, who is the fairest and most palatable of all the daughters. Her best friend and closest sister, Elizabeth Bennett, notices a friend of Mr. Bingley, a reserved and proud man named Mr. Darcy. Darcy despises parties, and his appearance is one of disgust at everything. Elizabeth and Mr. Darcy are the main focus of the story, and I will be highlighting their development over time, discarding the many subplots that add to their story, for the sake of time and interest.

Darcy chooses not to dance with Elizabeth at this first party, which is extremely disrespectful. To have women sit through dances when there is a lack of partners in the room is seen as very rude and prideful behavior. Fast forwarding, Jane, the eldest, is invited by Mr. Bingley’s sisters to dine at their estate, where she contracts a sickness of some kind. Elizabeth walks all the way over to Bingley to visit her sister and ensure her health. At Bingley’s estate, a sort of ‘relationship’ forms between Elizabeth and Darcy, with her quick wit shining through the man’s dull and reserved talk. She means only to tease him and sees no attraction to him whatsoever. Darcy slowly starts to recognize this wit of Elizabeth, and he unwillingly finds it attractive.

Sudeley Castle in England. All photos from the movie are sadly copyrighted.

A series of misunderstandings happens between them, and Elizabeth thinks extremely ill of Darcy- that he stopped the Bingley-Jane relationship and was rude to an old friend of his who needed a promised occupation. Darcy does not know of this information and proposes to Elizabeth. He states his proposition in a rude way, saying how he loves her against all logic and societal boundaries. Elizabeth rejects him and wants nothing to do with him.

While going on a walk to clear her head, Elizabeth encounters Mr. Darcy, who hands her a letter. Inside, it contains a full explanation of his actions, clearing him completely from the prejudice and anger Elizabeth has against him. This is a major turning point in the story, as she now starts to think of him as a reasonable and kind man, and wonders what it would have been like to be Mrs. Darcy.

Elizabeth’s aunt and uncle take her to visit Darcy’s estate, for it is one of grand spectacles, and he is not home. While visiting, the housekeeper has nothing but the utmost praise for Mr. Darcy, and the house is very pleasant. From here, a spiral of feeling develops within Elizabeth, from dread of seeing Darcy to wanting to see him more than ever. Darcy does one final act of paying a large debt from an embarrassing situation for the Bennet family, without any recognition, which Elizabeth soon learns about.

Back at the Bennetts’ home, Darcy and Bingley come to visit. Darcy and Elizabeth go on a walk, and Elizabeth explains her change in feelings. They are enjoyed in each other’s company and confidence and become engaged. Along with this, Jane and Bingley picked up where they had left off and are to be married as well. Everyone is happy, especially Mrs. Bennett, now that her daughters will marry two wealthy men.

Westminster Abbey, London, England.

Diction

The way Austen writes is so unique that just reading a sentence by itself requires an extra bit of attention. The book was written and set in the early 1800’s, and the way of speaking back then is nothing like it is now. Considered to be ‘Early Modern English,’ the words are full of nuances and analogies, along with great wit. Reading this language can prove a difficult task, as it seems you need “rapid smarts” to quickly pick up what one is trying to convey.

For example, “Not all that Mrs. Bennet, however, with the assistance of her five daughters, could ask on the subject, was sufficient to draw from her husband any satisfactory description of Mr. Bingley” (Austen, Ch.1 P&P). If spoken today, it might be condensed to something like, “Mrs. Bennett, with help from her five daughters, couldn’t get enough information about Mr. Bingley from Mr. Bennett, despite all their questions.” It takes a little while to get used to, but I really learned a lot about speaking formally as well as gathering a feel and tone for the time in which it was written. The formality is comes from the formalness of their lives. They were governed by class and conduct everywhere, and the language helps portray this. It felt like a breath of fresh air whenever someone spoke casually, just as it could have in those times.

Ideas

–Misunderstanding: The main conflict in the book centers around a series of misunderstandings. All sorts of gossip spreads, and people’s names are constantly tainted without any statement of their own view or explanation of their actions. Something that quickly came to mind was the Fundamental Attribution Error.

The “Fundamental Attribution Error” is defined as “a mistake that people make when they think that the way another person behaves is a result of their character rather than the result of the situation that they are in” (Cambridge Dictionary). This idea is everywhere that Darcy touches. He looks to be extremely prideful and above everyone, whereas he really was just raised to be quieter and not enjoy the company of many people. Imagine you go to a party as a rich single man, where everyone knows your wealth, and tries to introduce you to their daughters. If you are not a big socialite or extrovert (like Bingley), this would make anyone awkward and nervous.

–Logos vs. Pathos: Darcy is torn between the logical decision of marrying someone wealthy with status and connections, and his love for Elizabeth, someone without fame or fortune, who is looked down upon by his relatives. The whole point of Darcy’s awkward manner is that to others, it would seem logical that he is above the enchantments of such an ‘uninteresting’ girl, whereas he is really in love with her, “ardently”(Austen).

–Attraction: As a man myself, I can speak on how it feels to be attracted to women who have zero interest in you. To have one’s own ducks in a row, without the need of a partner, and be fully confident in oneself, is one of the most attractive qualities. I don’t claim to be a relationship expert or anything like that, but people typically like people who aren’t obsessed with them and have their own things going on, hence the ‘Good morning beautiful!’ too soon being so despised.

Elizabeth is exactly the opposite. She cares nothing for Darcy, despite his wealth and her lack, and makes conversation with him an opportunity to mock his rigidity or make him look ridiculous. Darcy sees this as extremely witty and attractive- that a woman doesn’t care for his status or worship his wealth, just as others do in the story. It makes perfect sense that Darcy would fall in love with Elizabeth, as not only is she attractive, she is also off limits according to his surroundings, making her more of a ‘forbidden fruit’ than all the women that through themselves at him. Everyone loves a bit of yearning.

Winchcombe, England

Should you read it?

Yes!

The “romance”, if you would call it that, is mature, and there is nothing lewd or anything like that. I can see how some could view it as more ‘female’ literature, as it’s not exactly a thriller. However, this book keeps you guessing and on your toes, pacing-wise. Austen wastes no time with descriptions of locations and focuses more on the interactions between characters. The characters are so tangible and real that you seem to understand how they tick, making them extremely lovable and relatable. I can certainly relate to Darcy in being uncomfortable at large parties of people I don’t know, or coming off as rude or prideful because of my own insecurity.

Not only was it enjoyable, but I also found it very educational. I had no touchstone for how people used to live back in that era (early 1800s), and it provides perspective on the way we view relationships today. Back then, it didn’t really matter if you didn’t like your husband; you were marrying, so you didn’t end up poor or a maid (as is the case with Elizabeth’s friend Charlotte). Elizabeth’s story is an exception, which is what made it so joyful that the two end up together.

If you want a classic to read with lovable characters, realistic relationships, and awesome wit, go to your local bookstore and buy it (they have it, no doubt). It will expand your use of English, make you feel smarter, read better, and who knows, maybe it will help you in relationships. I can’t promise advertising that you’ve read this book will help you win any girls… actually, I would probably avoid telling them at all. Say you only read The WSJ and Rich Dad Poor Dad.

Works Cited:

Austen, Jane. Pride and Prejudice. Penguin Books, 2019.

“Fundamental Attribution Error.” Cambridge Dictionary, dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/fundamental-attribution-error. Accessed 23 Jan. 2026.

January 25, 2026